Thinking About Throwing in the Towel? Here’s Why You Shouldn’t Get a ‘Real Job’
If you’ve ever been an entrepreneur for more than five minutes, you’ve probably hit that wall—the moment when you look at your to-do list, your dwindling bank balance, and your mounting stress, and think, “Why did I ever think this was a good idea?”
It’s a breaking point, and suddenly the 9-to-5 job you swore you’d never take starts to look strangely appealing. The predictable hours, the steady paycheck, the chance to clock out and leave your work behind at the end of the day—what’s not to love, right?
But let’s be real here. You know deep down that you’d last about a week in a “real job” before you were climbing the walls, frustrated by bureaucracy, and daydreaming about the business you walked away from. If you’ve ever found yourself in this position, you’re not alone. As entrepreneurs, we go through cycles of loving and hating what we do. The good news? There are ways to get back on track and fall in love with your business all over again.
Why a 9-to-5 Job Isn’t the Answer
When you hit that low point, it’s easy to romanticize the idea of working for someone else. It seems like a relief to leave the worries of payroll, marketing, client retention, and administrative nightmares to someone else for a change. But let me share a little secret: entrepreneurs don’t fit into a corporate mold. We’re wired differently.
1. You’re Used to Making the Rules
Remember why you started your business in the first place? You wanted the freedom to make decisions, to set your own schedule, and to follow your vision without someone breathing down your neck. Going back to a traditional job means giving up control, being told what to do, and asking permission for every little thing. You’ll be rolling your eyes during meetings and muttering, “I could do this better” under your breath before you know it.
2. You Thrive on Variety and Challenges
Entrepreneurs are problem-solvers. We get bored easily if we’re not being challenged. The predictability of a 9-to-5 job might seem like a welcome change at first, but once the novelty wears off, you’ll miss the variety and excitement of running your own business. When you’re in charge, every day brings a new problem to solve or a new opportunity to chase. It’s exhausting, sure, but it’s also exhilarating.
3. You Can’t Ignore Your Inner Voice
I’ve seen it time and time again. An entrepreneur hits a rough patch, decides to give up, and takes a “real job” out of desperation. Six months later, they’re miserable, starting to dream up new business ideas on their lunch break, and wondering why they ever left in the first place. You can’t shut off the entrepreneurial drive. It’s in your DNA. Even when it feels hard, the pull to create something of your own is stronger than the lure of a steady paycheck.
How to Fall Back in Love with Your Business
So, if the corporate escape plan isn’t the answer, what is? How do you get out of this rut and find your passion for your business again? Here are some strategies that have worked for me and my clients over the years.
1. Take a Step Back and Look at the Big Picture
When you’re knee-deep in the daily grind, it’s easy to lose sight of why you started your business in the first place. Remember your initial vision—the excitement you felt about building something from the ground up. Take a day (or a week, if you can) to step back, unplug, and reconnect with your purpose. One of my clients did exactly this. He was feeling burnt out and frustrated, ready to throw in the towel. I told him to take a weekend off, leave his phone at home, and spend some time doing the things he loved outside of work. By the end of it, he had clarity, new ideas, and a renewed sense of purpose.
2. Outsource the Tasks You Hate
One of the fastest ways to fall out of love with your business is to spend all your time on the parts you hate.
When I was first starting out, I did everything myself—bookkeeping, invoicing, newsletter creation, you name it. I was working 36-hour marathons and getting more frustrated by the day. It wasn’t until I hired a bookkeeper and outsourced my newsletter formatting that I got a taste of what freedom felt like.
Suddenly, I had time to focus on what I enjoyed—growing the business, coaching clients, and creating new programs.
If you’re stuck doing all the admin work, it’s time to delegate.
Trust me, the cost is worth the peace of mind.
3. Reconnect with Your Clients
When you’re bogged down with paperwork and putting out fires, it’s easy to forget why you’re doing this in the first place—your clients. Take time to reach out and check in with a few of them. Ask for feedback. Hear their success stories.
One of my favorite things to do when I’m feeling disconnected is to read through client testimonials or case studies. Seeing the tangible impact our services have had on their businesses reminds me why I started this company and reignites that fire.
4. Set New Goals and Challenges
Sometimes, burnout isn’t about being overwhelmed—it’s about being underwhelmed. If your business has plateaued, it might be time to shake things up with a new project, product, or service. Set a big, audacious goal that excites you.
I did this with the launch of our software, Essential Elements™. It was a huge undertaking, and there were moments when I wanted to quit, but the challenge of building something innovative kept me going. Now, seeing how it’s transformed our clients’ businesses makes every sleepless night worth it.
5. Surround Yourself with Supportive People
Entrepreneurship can be lonely. When you’re struggling, it helps to have a circle of fellow business owners who get it. Find a mentor, join a mastermind group, or simply connect with a friend who understands the ups and downs of running a business.
One of my clients was ready to give up until she joined a peer group of entrepreneurs. Hearing their stories of struggle and success reminded her that she wasn’t alone, and it gave her the motivation she needed to keep going.
